5 Questions Every Parent Should Ask About an IEP Meeting

Navigating an IEP (Individualized Education Plan) meeting can be overwhelming, especially if you're new to the process. As a parent, you are your child’s best advocate—and asking the right questions can ensure your child gets the support they truly need.

Whether you're attending your first meeting or your fifth, here are five essential IEP meeting tips to guide your conversation and decision-making.

🧠 1. What are my child’s present levels of performance?

Why It Matters: This section sets the stage for everything in the IEP. It describes your child’s current academic, emotional, and functional performance.

✅ Ask:

“Can you walk me through where my child is currently performing in each area of concern?”

🎯 2. Are the IEP goals SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound)?

IEP goals should not be vague. They should be clear enough that you can track your child’s progress throughout the school year.

✅ Ask:

“How will I know if my child is meeting these goals—and how often will progress be measured?”

🧩 3. What specific services and supports will my child receive?

From speech therapy to classroom accommodations, this is the “how” behind your child’s success.

✅ Ask:

“What services will be provided, by whom, how often, and in what setting?”

🧍🏽‍♀️ 4. How is my child’s inclusion in general education being supported?

Schools are required to place children in the least restrictive environment. That means as much time as possible with peers who are not in special education.

✅ Ask:

“What supports will be provided to help my child succeed in a general education setting?”

📅 5. How will we stay in communication and monitor progress?

You deserve to be kept in the loop—not just once a year.

✅ Ask:

“Will we receive regular updates on progress? How can we communicate between meetings?”

✨ Bonus IEP Meeting Tips for Parents:

• Bring notes, concerns, and examples of your child’s work
• Don’t be afraid to ask for a break or reschedule if needed
• You can always bring someone with you—an advocate, a relative, or a friend

🗣️ You Don’t Have to Do It Alone

At EmpowerED Advocates, we support families across Washington, DC and Northern VA through:

• IEP reviews
• Meeting support (virtual & in-person)
• Progress monitoring and advocacy coaching

We’re here to help you feel confident, prepared, and empowered.

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